How to stop a fight with him before it even starts!

March 5th, 2011

We’ve all been there. That pivotal point where you are mentally planning your next verbal attack that will hit him below the belt and have you coming out on top of the argument…only for him to get even more angry, regress in communication and need time alone before he blows. Do we really want to put him there? No, of course not.

We want to get our point across and have the last word, but ladies you need to be carful how deeply we make the cut. Often we are a bit more witty and quick-mouthed than men and despite their ‘manly, non-sensitive’ front – they do have feelings and it’s not that difficult to hurt them.

Below are 5 helpful tips to bring you down a notch when you’re about to throw the dagger that could take this small tiff from an argument to a full blown, not speaking for days FIGHT.

1. Deep breathe and think about it for at least 10 seconds. This is no easy task, but I guarantee if you think about the nasty thing you have been planning to say for at least 10 seconds you won’t say it. This will save you an apology and the extended amount of time he’ll take before makeup sex.

2. Repeat his ‘point’ back to him. As we all know, conflict can often occur out of misunderstanding. Make sure you are crystal clear on exactly what it is he has said, feels and wants by re-stating what you think you heard. Many times you’ll find that you heard it wrong or that’s not what he meant. This is a great time to clarify that.

3. When he shouts, start talking. This is another one that will take some serious biting of the tongue, but it works. If he starts to shout and get more aggressive, immediately begin talking in a calm collected voice to him. He has clearly begun to flip, so bringing him back to a peaceful conversation will get much more accomplished and many more necessary topics discussed. He will also see that you’re not in attack mode, so his defenses will come down.

4. Throw a joke in there. This will show him that it’s just not that serious. You two don’t agree or still have things to workout and discuss, but in the grand scheme of things dinner is still on tonight. This is what having a healthy relationship is all about. You don’t have to agree on everything, but when you do argue make sure you understand there is a calm outcome that will always be the ending.

5. Watch your body language. Arms crossed, foot tapping and lips pursed doesn’t exactly give off the ‘babe, I just want to calmly discuss this’ vibe. Keep your arms down and wide open, face him with full focus on his face and engage when speaking to him so he knows you are 100% into this conversation. This is showing that the topic you are discussing is something you truly care about and want to get to the bottom of. This also shows that you are open to his opinion and ideas, while not giving off the ‘shut down’ vibe.

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Top 10 date movies!

March 5th, 2011

I think if we surveyed the world for the most popular date ideas, going out to dinner and watching a movie together would come in tied. Who doesn’t love a romantic comedy to set the lovey-dovey mood? Or you could just kill the entire night with a sad, depressing film that leaves him wanting to run for the hills and you running through an entire box of tissues. Do you see where I’m going with this? Well to make sure you pick just the right movie to enhance the time you’re spending with that special someone, here is a list of our top 10 date movie picks:

1. Hitch (2005) – this would be for a funny guy who likes to laugh. Keeps the mood fun and both sexes can enjoy.

2. The Wedding Singer (1998) – another funny, light-hearted pick that will keep you both laughing yet engaged. Plus who doesn’t love Adam Sandler?

3. Intolerable Cruelty (2003) – this is more on the thrilling, serious side but will keep you both happy including smoking hot George Clooney and sexy temptress Catherine Zeta-Jones. This will keep the mood flirty and sultry.

4. Say Anything (1989) – throwing in a good old-school 80s flick could never hurt! John Cusack is adorable to look at and the story line is something all good men could relate too.

5. Top Gun (1986) – I think any man will immediately fall in love with you at this point. Top Gun is a pure classic that has plenty of action and testosterone for him, while giving you more than enough gorgeous men to look at.

6. Mr. & Mrs. Smith (2005) – Nothing will create a more sexual yet sophisticated mood like the infamous Brad and Angie on screen. This movie will be sure to keep his attention the whole way through, while transferring that back onto you when all is said & done.

7. Casino Royale (2006) – This one has plenty of action mixed with plenty of great looking women. He will be happy you didn’t pick a chick flick and you will be happy looking at Daniel Craig.

8. There’s Something About Mary (1998) – This one is hilarious and witty, yet has a great love story hidden underneath. He will appreciate Ben Stiller and enjoy Cameron Diaz. Love this one!

9. Meet the Parents (2000) – No matter what stage in your relationship you’re at, everyone can laugh and relate to this one. Ben throws some killer quotable lines in here that will have you both laughing for hours.

10. Jerry Maguire (1996) – This one is right up there with Top Gun in undeniable classics. It’s serious enough, but still has a great story line underneath of it mixed in with plenty of sexual tension. Chances are he will have seen this one before and be excited!

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5 tips for a long distance relationship!

March 5th, 2011

In today’s day and age with traveling and globalization continuing to grow at a rapid pace, long distance relationships are everything but uncommon. They can happen all over the world and whether you’re a 2 hour drive or a 6 hour plane ride away from that special person, distance can still take it’s tole. Who doesn’t want to see the love of their life on a daily basis or just be able to pop in and surprise them at work? Well if you happen to be in one of these loving but difficult situations, I have 5 helpful tips that will make the 300 plus miles between you seem like he’s just in the other room:

1. You must Skype. Skyping (or face time from the iPhone) is one of the newest and best ways to be able to see the person you love (who may really be thousands of miles away) while you’re talking. It’s as if you’re sitting across from them instead of just staring at a phone sadly wishing it was their face. This allows them to see every part of you (clearly you get where I’m going with that) and your environment to feel that much closer to you. All you need is a camera attached or built into your computer and a free Skype account. So get moving!

2. Mail is necessary. It doesn’t matter whether you mail them cookies, photos, cards, panties or gifts, just mail them something on a regular basis. This adds an element of excitement and suspense to what could get boiled down to a mundane situation being so far away from each other. He will not only look forward to receiving these packages, but it reminds him how much you love and care about him.

3. Take turns on making trips. One thing I suggest everyone evaluate in a long distance relationship, is the person on the other end putting in as much effort as you are? This answer should always be YES. Make sure you take turns taking trips, not only for financial reasons but also to evaluate how interested he is in keeping this going. How will you know what his motives and level of interest is if you are making all the big moves all the time?

4. Create a communicating schedule. Whatever way you communicate (phone, letters, e-mails, Skype, etc.) make sure nothing gets in the way of that. Openly speaking about your day, week, experiences and feelings are what is going to keep this relationship alive…because the physical aspect isn’t always there (or at least not as often as you’d like). Set the standard in the very beginning of what you expect in phone calls, texts or Skype sessions. Let him know what this relationship will require in order to work so there is no surprise when your feelings change from possible neglect. Many men can fall into the ‘out of sight- out of mind’ mentality, so we need to be clear with them from the start.

5. Get creative when it comes to sex. There is no doubt that sex is a huge part of most relationships, however it is clearly much more difficult when you’re trying to do it long distance. You need to get creative with the dirty texts or picture messages you send, the packages you prepare, the sexy Skype sessions you have or even the phone sex you try. Make sure you’re always trying something different or new so he doesn’t get bored because let’s face it, all of this is clearly second best to the real deal which can’t always happen.

To really spice things up and have him wanting more each week, check out www.cleosboutique.com for new and fun adult toys you can use on yourself in front of him that will blow his mind. There is plenty to chose from ladies, so don’t waste time – get started today!

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5 tips to being a great girlfriend!

February 27th, 2011

Being in a relationship isn’t always easy…Ok let’s be honest, it’s downright hard. You will constantly be tempted, tried and tested. For every easy, amazing feeling there will probably be a hurtful, annoyed feeling. Here are 5 tips for you to try doing on a regular basis that will make him remember any time he’s upset at you or has an issue, just how amazing of a girlfriend you really are.

1. Food works every time. Get off early one day and tell him to meet you at your house. Open the door and have his favorite dinner nearly ready to go with a bottle of his favorite wine (or a cold beer- his preference). Make sure you have told him to come over slightly earlier than his traditional dinner time so he doesn’t eat prior to getting there. Men will forever and always appreciate their favorite meal after a long day of work.

2. Send him treats. There is nothing more exciting than getting unexpected packages at work or at home. Whether they have chocolate chip cookies in them or a pair of your panties with a hot love note, it’s random and EXCITING. Men love to be excited. And honestly, not many women remember this on a regular basis.

3. Create a “just about him night”. Start a new tradition in your relationship where you two agree that certain nights are just about you or him (in this case him). Ask him what he would like to see you in and do with you and let him know this night is all about HIS fantasies. He will feel special and incredibly turned on. Make sure you throw in that a ‘you’ night will be happening in the near future as well.

4. Giving gifts. This is where ladies go so wrong. When you give a man a gift, it is very easy to think of what you like or ‘think’ he would like and get it. When in all reality, he doesn’t want or need that at all. Take a minute to get on his level- really consider what he likes EVEN if it drives you crazy. Tickets to a sporting event, a 30 pack, a new video game or maybe his favorite team’s clothing. Whatever it may be, when you come in tune with what he truly wants- you’re golden in his eyes.

5. Embrace “the guys”. Going to hang out with ‘the guys’ can sometimes be a fight-starter with women. We don’t always care for his friends or understand why they say/do things/think/act the way they do. But that’s ok. They’re his friends and for whatever reason, he likes them. If he wants a night out or even a night in with them and just them, don’t buck it (unless there is a serious previous trust issue- then we have a problem). But if not, let him have his time alone. He will not only miss you more, but he will love how understanding and sensitive you are to him having his own life aside from your life together.

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Ladies, why over-dieting is not the answer…

February 27th, 2011

In today’s world- if you don’t look like Giselle, you better start dieting. I understand that ladies are always looking to lose an extra 10 pounds, but over-dieting is not the answer. So many women eat horribly for months with no exercise and then crash diet 3 weeks before their trip or event. Not only isn’t this not healthy for your body in general, but it takes quite a toll on your breasts- which gravity has already taken responsibility for in the greater scheme of things.

According to Cosmopolitan.com, “some sag is inevitable. Gravity, breast growth spurts in your teens and early 20s, pregnancy, and breast-feeding all cause your boobs to change shape. Any change in the shape of your breasts stretches your skin’s collagen and elastin, two components that make skin firm. This leaves your twins less perky over time, says Jill Weinstein, a dermatologist at Northwestern Memorial Hospital, in Illinois.”

We all understand weight gain circumstances come up, but cycling back and forth between the same 10 pounds in your 20s (for example) can lead to premature sag by the time you hit 30. “If you keep stretching and shrinking something, it will wear out, like a sweater,” says NYC nutritionist Stephanie Middleberg, RD.

Why is this the case? Well breasts are very sensitive to weight changes. “When you gain weight, fat tends to go to your female parts first, like your breasts,” Dr. Minkin says. “They’re also one of the first places most women lose weight from when they diet.” The thinner and heavier you get, the thinner and heavier your boobs will be, and the more droopy you’ll be in the long run.

Now that you are aware of this dieting tip, make sure to keep weight off as much as possible once you’ve lost it. You can do this by maintaining a balanced diet (minimal sugar, white bread, bad carbs and bad fats) accompanied by 30 minutes of cardio at least 4 times a week. This is a good lifestyle plan to “maintain” weight loss. If you still have more to lose, step up your activity until you’re satisfied.

For more tips and information on our adult product line that you can have plenty of fun with along your weight loss journey, please visit www.cleosboutique.com!

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10 sexual tips you may not know!

February 27th, 2011

When it comes to sex, most sexual women think they know all the tricks there are to know about it. Well hold on. We have 10 HOT tips that you may not have known about right here compliments of the infamous sex magazine, Cosmopolitan. Read on and test your knowledge.

1. Pocket pleaser. Tell your man you need change or something out of his pocket and as you reach in, grab his penis instead. Rub it through the fabric until he’s hard. Then ask if you two can please excuse yourselves where ever you may be for a car quickie!

2. Don’t forget about the oils. Before you go to get it on, take a bath with him. While your bath water is running, drop in two drops of patchouli oil, three drops of sandalwood oil, and three drops of lavender oil into your bath water. Patchouli and sandalwood are oils that awaken sensuality, while lavender oil induces relaxation. These will have you both in the mood in no time.

3. No sex…just yet. Next time you are about to have sex, take his penis as if you are going to insert it in your vagina but don’t. Just rub it all over the outside which will pleasure your clit and surrounding area, but build anticipation for him as well. He’ll go crazy wanting it!

4. The NO hands massage. Undress your man from head to toe and prepare him for a massage. Only glitch is you will NOT use your hands. Instead use your mouth, tongue, head, breasts and pelvis. Stroke everything but his penis and he will surely be hard when you’re done.

5. Slip into a naughty costume. This will not only surprise the heck out of him, but it’s different and exciting! No matter what you choose, he will love it and be sure to tell all his friends how incredible you really are. Tell him to come over and have everything ready to be his nurse, temptress or school girl. This will take you VERY far, trust me.

6. Keep those heels ON. It’s our first instinct to take our heels off when we’re about to get it on, but keep them on. He won’t say anything until he notices how hot you looks naked with heels on. It will be a huge plus to look at that he’ll be sure to thank you for later.

7. Bring in the sex toys. Men won’t think to include fun things like this, so that’s your job. When you’re about to begin, bring out a dildo or pleasure toy from Cleo’s Boutique for him. He’ll not only find this freaky and exciting, but I guarantee he’ll get just as much pleasure out of it as you do. Take the lead with these, being that he’s probably not to familiar. Tell him to sit back and watch you do your thing.

8. Make out longer. Men usually want to fly right into the good stuff, but sometimes the best stuff is before the big stuff. A steamy make out session rolling around in your bed, touching and feeling over clothes can be just as exciting! It’s passionate and suspenseful. It will also get him rock hard and have you beyond ready. Try it!

9. Touch a sensual nerve. One of the most explosive nerves in the body is located at the top of the inner thigh. Start by licking your finger (the wetness increases the stimulation) and slowly drawing it from the mid–inner thigh to the top. Then follow the path you just traced with your tongue, teasing your way to the upper region. Because the skin here is tender, it’s important to watch how he reacts. If he gets giddish, he’s probably ticklish there and you’ll want to be careful with that. But if he looks relaxed, he’s loving it.

10. Pick your position carefully. Take a night and pick only positions you both can see him thrusting in. The sight of his penis going in and out of you will be incredible for both of you. It’s similar to watching porn when you can see everything.

For more information or kinky ideas, please visit our website at www.cleosboutique.com. We offer a the best adult toy selection on the market, so spice it up and start shopping!

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5 places and tips for quickies!

February 13th, 2011

There’s nothing quite like a quickey in the car before your aunt’s birthday dinner or in the closet at your cousin’s engagement party. Let’s be honest, they happen and they’re great! However there are proven positions and tips that work in these small, confined places to help make the best out of your unplanned experience. Below are 5 of the most popular places to sneak that quickie in and a few helpful tips to make it successful.

1. Mr.Obvious, the car. We all have had that great night in a front or back seat and experienced the out-in-the-open but locked-and-secure feeling. It’s enough exciting risk to be seen but enough security to know you won’t be snuck up on…hopefully. We suggest to forget the driver’s seat and skip the back seat. Stick to the reclining the passenger seat for the most room and comfort. Another tip, if you have leather- stick a shirt or coat down below him so your skin doesn’t stick. We suggest the easiest position to reach the big O would be girl-on-top reverse. So basically the girl is sitting on him like a chair. This is an easy, space efficient position that allows little set up and a quick return.

2. Be carful of your surroundings with, the closet. The closet is a really risky one depeding on where you are and what is currently going on in the house. As long as you have a thourough knowledge of your surroundings when you begin, we suggest standing up doggy style from behind. This is a easy position to quickly stop and try to look like you weren’t doing what you were doing- just incase you’re not as sneaky as you thought!

3. Bring him shopping, in the fitting room. The fitting room is without a doubt exciting. You know for sure, there is a possibility of other people walking in and you’re ok with that. The key to this one is making sure it looks like only one person is in the room, so we suggest you sitting on on the bench or chair with legs up, face-to-face with him. This gives the illusion of one person and is most likely the easiest way to go. If there’s no bench, try him holding you up against the wall. Either way- you’ll also want to keep it quiet for this one too, for fear of being “that couple” when exiting.

4. Depending on the size, the shower. Not every master bath has the same style shower but with this safe-at-home location, you’ll most likely want to avoid any seated positions on the floor with water gushing in your face. It would be ideal if there was a bench or chair involved, where in that case we would say just hop on top (either facing him or facing away). If there is no seat, try standing up doggy style from behind. Any position having him hold you up (while dripping wet) could be risky- and not in a good way. And if you think you’ll dry up, keep a lubricant handy while making sure the shower is hitting him in the back and not any part of you. That will make it a bit easier.

5. You can go up and down OR in and out, on a elevator. An elevator might be the most risky place we have talked about for the simple fact that there is no warning sign at all. That door could open at any time and if you’re caught with your pants down, let’s hope it’s just the cleaning lady. A few tips would be ladies, it’s easier if you’re wearing a skirt that can quickly be pulled down. In this case we suggest a face-to-face position with your leg up. Just unzipping his pants and pulling your skirt up is the safest way to avoid any mishaps. If there is a handrail available, lean on that with both hands and legs up while he faces you as well (just be careful it doesn’t break!).

These little places aren’t always easy, but are surely fun! For more information on Cleo’s Boutique and what we have to offer, please visit our website at www.cleosboutique.com!

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What you THINK you know about men…

February 12th, 2011

When it comes to what either gender thinks about the other, there are usually more myths than truths. Women would say we have men all figured out and could write the book on what their (thought to be simple) minds think. However every time I read magazines or books where men are interviewed, their responses many times go against exactly what we THINK to be so true about them. Below are 5 huge myths us women have come to believe, that are actually FALSE.

1. The man asks the woman out. Now every girl has their own opinion on this one, but when 51 men were interviewed for Cosmopolitan magazine, “(almost 90 percent) said they’d be psyched if a woman asked them out because that kind of confidence is sexy”. Ladies as awkward as it may seem, men can appreciate you making the first move.

2. You need boobs AND a butt to be attractive. Now you really need to re-evaluate yourself if you still believe this one, but there is no doubt that men are so extremely diverse in what they consider “attractive” to be. Some men love boobs and some could care less (same with butts). But I guarantee all men do want one thing, which is for you to be confident with whatever body type you have or assets you bring to the table. Rock what you’ve got ladies!

3. You have to be materialistic in order to be hot. NO WAY…with the exception for the few metro sexual men out there that care about this kinda stuff. Please ask your last date, boyfriend or husband if he cares how high your heels are, what color your nails are painted, how much jewelry you have on or what brand your dress is. The Cosmo poll said that when they asked their 51 bachelors, the men came to the decision that the hottest outfit a woman can wear is athletic shorts and a sports bra! Go figure. But don’t get me wrong, if doing that stuff makes YOU feel good about YOU, then do it all day girls!

4. What men get annoyed with the most. When asked what drives men crazy the most (pay attention ladies), they said when women are moody or high maintenance. This pick out scored clingy and indecisive surprisingly. Men (traditionally) don’t get moody, which means when you do- they don’t understand it. They can’t relate to it, so they don’t get it or like it. Just try to watch the mood swings is all I’m saying.

5. Every man will give the girl he doesn’t care about excuses. This explanation is going to go like this; what he tells you when he doesn’t care, what he does if he cares. I didn’t have time, he made time. I’m just not ready for a commitment, he became ready and committed. I’m too tired, he got the energy. I just don’t want a girlfriend right now, he made you his girlfriend regardless. I don’t really feel up to it, he did it anyway. I hate this show, he watched it with you. Clearly this list could go on forever. Bottom line is when a man loves or cares about you, there is nothing he won’t do (within reason) to show you that. Don’t forget it and DON’T settle for less!

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Has your husband lost interest in sex?

February 6th, 2011

Every relationship has it’s ups and downs, we’re sure about that. However when your sex life goes completely…that can be a problem. And an even bigger problem is when it’s not by your will.

Millions of women every day deal with their husband or boyfriend “losing interest” in sex.  It’s something you don’t really want to confide in to too many people or honestly even talk about at all. It’s embarrassing to you because most women take that as a slap in their face. You aren’t attractive to him anymore, you can’t sexually please him anymore or he just doesn’t feel the same way about you.

Those are all common excuses we as women come up with, thinking it’s always our fault. But the truth is, maybe it isn’t? Maybe he’s stressed out at work or feeling overwhelmed with life in general. Maybe he is having trouble staying hard or he is having his own insecurity issues. Maybe the weather is bad or this season doesn’t work for him…you see where I’m going with this right? You will never know until you ASK.

 

Just like you don’t want to have that conversation with your best friend, sister or therapist, having it with him is twice as scary. And we understand that. But more importantly, it’s twice as necessary. You can talk to as many people as you want to about it, but until you ask him, you’ll never really know.

Having an open line of communication is the key (I know I say that a lot, but it’s true!). Simply ask. Let him know that  you are feeling neglected and unwanted sexually, let him know that it’s hurting you, let him know that you feel like things have changed for the worse and you’re not OK with them. Just starting this conversation will get you so much further than sitting around and thinking up all of the possible excuses that could be the reason.

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Online dating & it’s growth!

February 6th, 2011

With currently one out of every five relationships starting online, there is something to be said for that. However, many people are still very skeptical. They either think it’s dangerous or embarrassing and I think that’s down right silly. Below are a few shocking statistics regarding the success rate of online dating (just for starters):

-In the year 2008, 120,000 marriages that took place were attributed to online dating services.

-Among all the Internet services, online dating is at the top. Its growth estimate is 10%.

-31% of adults in America say they know someone who has used an online dating service.

-Online Dating Magazine estimates that more than 20 million people visit at least one online dating service a month.

-EHarmony has 20 million members.

-Match.com has 15 million members.

-There are more males (52.4%) than females (47.6%) currently registered on an online dating website.

-The online dating industry is worth $1.049 billon per year.

Those are just a few facts showing how successful, profitable and booming online dating is right now. It continues to grow at an extremely fast rate and one has to think if it wasn’t working, it would have died out by now. So if you’re single with little time or interest in bar hopping, clubbing or blind dating just give it a try! Meeting a man at a bar or club is just as random as online, your first encounter is simply physical.

If dating is no big deal to you and you are perfectly content with your single, independent life then by all means live it up girl. But if you find yourself feeling alone, upset or even depressed due to your less than satisfying love life, I say go for it.

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